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Find their missing puzzle piece

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May 26, 2010 by Elizabeth H. Cottrell

Too often I see people who are warm, caring, and thoughtful in their personal lives, yet when they’re dealing with employees, co-workers, customers, and prospects, they seem much stiffer and more focused on what they need to get out of these people instead of how much they can give them.

A service mentality should be cultivated here too.

When service becomes the focus, then instead of thinking “How many of these widgets can I get this customer to buy?” or “How much money can I get this potential donor to give?” you’ll be thinking, “How can I help this person in some way?” “How can I help this donor fulfill their philanthropic dreams?”

Help them find the puzzle piece they’re missing…

So how do you figure out what they need or want? By listening…but that’s a topic for another post (“Start by Listening”…)

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I’m Elizabeth Cottrell, author of HEARTSPOKEN and a lifelong believer that handwritten notes can connect, comfort, encourage, and inspire. This blog explores Connection in many ways. [Read more about me.]

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