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Use Freewriting to connect with your inner self

August 14, 2012 by Guest Blogger

Welcome to guest blogger and Heartspoken Connection Messenger Dallas Woodburn, award-winning author and editor. 

The rushing river of time

Sometimes it feels like time is a river rushing past me so fast and I’m sitting there in a little boat, struggling to get a grip on the oars, not even enjoying the beautiful scenery flowing past. It makes me feel overwhelmed and frustrated, like I’m wasting or not appreciating enough the most precious commodity we all are gifted with: time.

It’s like a sickness

I am also guilty of something I’ve come to think of in myself as productivitis: trying to fit waaaaaay too much into my daily to-do list and then feeling like a failure when I don’t accomplish everything I’ve set out to do. This is not a good habit because I don’t want my summer, or my life, to be nothing but a giant to-do list of tasks I’m checking off. As my idol John Wooden often said, the most important words in the English language are love and balance. Work is important, but so is time for play! Balance, balance, balance is so crucial.

Healing and insight from freewriting

Something that is helpful to me when I am feeling off-balance, especially by the incredibly fast-flowing river of time, is to go to a quiet corner of the room and spend a few minutes freewriting.

I always use freewriting in the creative writing courses I teach to help students break through writer’s block. However, I think freewriting is something that can benefit everyone! It is such a great tool for not just writing, but also your mental health, sense of empowerment, and overall happiness.

Don’t make it hard!

You don’t need a fancy journal or expensive pen to freewrite. All you need is a blank piece of paper — even scrap paper works! Some people like to freewrite on the computer, which is certainly all right. I personally enjoy using a pen and paper because it makes the writing feel more open and less intimidating somehow — more unharnessed. Something just for me.

Here are some freewriting topics I’ve been using lately as jumping-off points:

  • My favorite memory I made this summer was …
  • Three things I am grateful for in this moment are …
  • I will wring out every last drop of fun from my last couple weeks of summer by …

Here’s how freewriting works:

Set a timer for a certain amount of time — I’ve found 8 minutes works well because it’s not too long or too short — and start writing. The only rule is you cannot stop until the timer dings! It is a tool to keep you from self-editing or second-guessing or worrying what you are writing is not “good” enough. Instead, just let the writing pour out of you. You will find yourself tapping into your subconscious, which can help you unlock all sorts of dreams and ideas and even solve nagging problems. For me, freewriting is a way to re-find my center of balance. It unclutters my mind and makes me feel at peace.

Book cover of Dancing with the PenDallas Woodburn is the author of two award-winning collections of short stories (Quintessence and  3 a.m.: a collection of short stories)and editor of Dancing With The Pen: a collection of today’s best youth writing. Her short fiction has been nominated for the Pushcart Prize three years in a row and her nonfiction has appeared in a variety of national publications including Family Circle, Writer’s Digest, The Writer, and The Los Angeles Times. She is the founder of Write On! Books Youth Publishing Company and is currently pursuing her Master’s degree in Fiction Writing at Purdue University, where she teaches undergraduate writing courses and serves as Fiction Editor of Sycamore Review.

Note from Elizabeth: If you try freewriting, please come back and tell us about the experience in the comments below or on my Facebook page.

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  1. Karen S. Elliott

    August 15, 2012 at 7:59 am

    I have tried a few free writing exercises, and I sometimes get a good idea for a short story from my ramblings. Free writing also helps me let go of some little hurt or annoyance that’s been bugging me.

    “It’s like a sickness” – scheduling too much. You sure hit that nail on the head. I was on that merri-go-round earlier this year. I have cut my computer time in half. I make a point to schedule time off – I write it on my calendar!

    • Elizabeth Cottrell

      August 15, 2012 at 11:52 pm

      Karen, your reaction to Dallas’s piece was much like mine, except you’ve actually done something about it! I think she’s brought up a very important subject, and the more shiny, alluring “gadgets” and things out there to compete for our attention, the harder it is to focus. I plan to add some freewriting time to my schedule this fall.

    • Dallas

      August 20, 2012 at 12:09 am

      Hi Karen! Thanks so much for stopping by! I agree that free-writing can be a great way to get rid of negative feelings, hurt or frustration. And I love the idea of scheduling time off — sometimes that’s the only way to make sure you get that time to recharge and refill your writing well.

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